Whether your mom is by your side or watching from above, her presence can still be felt in every part of your wedding day. For many couples, finding heartfelt ways to include their mothers (or mother figures) adds a deep emotional layer to the celebration. From symbolic gestures to special roles, here are some thoughtful ways to include your mom at your wedding.

If Your Mom Is With You

1. Ask Her to Walk You Down the Aisle
Traditionally, this role is reserved for fathers, but it’s becoming more common for moms to walk their daughters down the aisle, either alone or alongside your dad or another loved one. Grooms can also take their mom’s arm versus their typical solo trip!
2. Invite Her to Join the Dress Search
Whether you shop at David’s or another boutique, bringing Mom dress shopping is a special bonding moment. Let her weigh in, celebrate with you, and maybe even find her own mother of the bride look.
3. Share a First Look Moment
Set aside a few quiet minutes before the ceremony to reveal your look to your mom—guys, too! It’s a chance for hugs, tears, and unforgettable photos.
4. Give Her a Role in the Ceremony
Have her do a reading, hold your bouquet during the vows, or light a candle in a unity ceremony. These small acts are big in meaning, and we just know Mom will appreciate it.
5. Gift Her Something Sentimental
A handwritten letter, a locket with a photo of you both, or even a custom embroidered handkerchief made from her wedding dress can be a touching memento of the day.

If Your Mom Has Passed Away

1. Wear or Carry Something of Hers
Incorporate her jewelry, veil, or fabric from one of her dresses into your look (we love a lace pocket square for the grooms). Some brides even have a patch of their mom’s handwriting stitched inside their gown.
2. Set Up a Memory Table or Seat
Include a framed photo, a candle, or a keepsake at the ceremony or reception to remind guests—and yourself—that she’s with you in spirit.
3. Mention Her in Your Ceremony or Program
Whether it’s a simple line in the officiant’s welcome or a note in your printed program, honoring her memory sets a meaningful tone.
4. Dance in Her Honor
Play a song that reminds you of her during the reception—maybe one she loved or one you both shared—and take a private or public moment to remember.
5. Write Her a Letter
Take time the morning of your wedding to write her a note. You can read it aloud, tuck it into your bouquet, or keep it close to your heart—just make sure to have some tissues handy and maybe do this before your makeup gets done.

Whether she’s physically present or not, your mom’s love can still be woven into every part of your wedding. These meaningful gestures—big and small—help celebrate the bond you’ll always share and ensure she’s part of your day in the most beautiful way.

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