You’ve chosen your bridesmaids, your groomsmen, and your flower girl — now it’s time to think about the smallest VIP of them all: the ring bearer! These pint-sized scene-stealers add so much personality (and cuteness!) to your big day. But if you’ve never had a child in a wedding before, you might be wondering: What do they actually wear? What do they do? And how do you keep them happy (and meltdown-free) from aisle to dance floor?

Here’s your go-to guide for all things ring bearer—with expert tips to keep the day smooth and stress-free.

What Does a Ring Bearer Wear?

Traditionally, ring bearers wear a miniature version of the groom and groomsmen’s attire: a tux, suit, or dress pants and shirt. But these days (as with anything), there’s no one right way to do it.

A few popular options:

• Mini Tuxedo: A classic look for black-tie weddings (and beyond).
• Matching Suit: Perfect if your wedding party is in suits instead of tuxes.
• Mix-and-Match Separates: Think dress pants, suspenders, and a bow tie for a playful twist.

To make outfitting easy, David’s has partnered with Little Tuxedos—a brand that offers tuxes and suits made specifically for little boys. They’re designed to look just like the grown-up versions, so your ring bearer will fit right in with the wedding party.

Pro tip: If the little guy is invited to the reception, too, make sure to pack him a change of clothes (because nobody wants an itchy, fussy toddler all night long)!

What Is the Ring Bearer’s Job?

Despite the name, ring bearers rarely carry the real rings these days (too much pressure!). Instead, they often walk down the aisle holding:

• A decorative pillow
• A small box or sign
• A faux ring tied with ribbon

Their main job? Be adorable and get everyone smiling. You can also have them walk with the flower girl, hold hands with a parent, or even ride down the aisle in a wagon if they’re on the younger side.

How to Keep Your Ring Bearer Happy

It’s no secret that little kids have short attention spans, and weddings can be overwhelming. Here are a few tried-and-true tips:

• Dress Rehearsal = Confidence: If possible, let them practice walking in their outfit so they feel comfortable.
• Timing is Everything: If they nap, try to schedule the ceremony around their best time of day.
• Snacks & Rewards: A few Goldfish crackers or a favorite treat can work wonders.
• Backup Plan: Be prepared for the possibility that they might get shy—it’s okay if a parent or sibling walks with them!

The Cutest Part of Your Wedding Party

A ring bearer might be small, but their presence makes a mighty impact on the joy and personality of your wedding day. Choosing the right outfit, one that’s comfy, cute, and perfectly coordinated, is the first step toward aisle success.

Explore Little Tuxedos at David’s to find the perfect look for your little guy, and check one more thing off your wedding to-do list.

Looking for more tips? Check out Pearl by David’s for all the latest trends, advice, and more.