If you’ve RSVP’d “yes” to an upcoming wedding, chances are you’re wondering the same thing as thousands of your fellow guests right now: How much should you spend on a wedding gift in 2025?
With inflation, evolving wedding guest etiquette, and more personalized celebrations than ever, the answer isn’t one-size-fits-all. Whether you’re attending your cousin’s backyard ceremony, your best friend’s destination wedding, or a coworker’s formal affair, here’s what you need to know about wedding gift expectations this year—and how to choose the perfect gift or amount…and still be able to pay your rent next month.
What’s the Average Wedding Gift Amount in 2025?
According to recent data and search trends, the average wedding gift amount in 2025 falls between $100 and $150 per guest. This range reflects the rising costs of living we’re all feeling while still honoring the couple and their big day and can change based on your relationship to the couple!
Here’s a general breakdown for how much to spend on a wedding gift by relationship:
- Coworker or Distant Acquaintance: $50–$75
- Friend or Extended Family Member: $100–$125
- Close Friend or Relative: $150–$200+
- If You’re Bringing a Plus-One: Add 50% or double the amount
Cash or Gift for a Wedding?
Cash Gifts: Giving money to the happy couple has become not only acceptable but often preferred! Couples are using cash funds to cover honeymoons, home improvements, or to save up for a larger gift. Use the couple’s registry link or wedding website to see if they have a preferred platform.
Physical Gifts: Don’t get us wrong, tangible gifts are still a classic choice—especially if you want something they’ll unwrap and remember. Stick with gifts from the couple’s registry to ensure it aligns with their needs and style. (Seriously, they spent a long time on that thing picking out exactly what they want).
Pro Tip: Want to gift creatively on a budget? Personalized gifts or DIY experiences (like a framed photo or date night basket) can be just as meaningful.
What to Consider Before Deciding Your Wedding Gift Budget
Everyone’s financial situation is different, and modern wedding gift etiquette recognizes that. You’re not required to spend a certain amount to prove your love or friendship. Instead, consider these factors when deciding what feels right:
1. Your Relationship to the Couple
Are you family, in the bridal party, or a casual invitee? Closer connections typically warrant a higher spend—but sincerity matters more than size.
2. The Type of Wedding
A courthouse wedding vs. a luxury destination weekend might influence your approach, though it’s not about “paying for your plate.” Instead, match your gift’s tone to the celebration.
3. Travel & Other Expenses
If you’re already spending on flights, hotels, attire, and childcare, it’s perfectly acceptable to adjust your gift budget accordingly.
Is It Okay to Give a Group Gift?
One word: Absolutely. Group gifting is one of the smartest trends for 2025, and tons of online registries now offer easy options to contribute toward larger items like:
- Furniture or appliances
- Travel experiences or honeymoon funds
- Home down payments
This allows you to give generously without breaking your budget—especially ideal for bridal parties, friend groups, or coworkers pooling together!
What If I Can’t Afford a Gift?
First thing’s first—you’re so not alone in worrying about this. This is a common concern and one of the most searched wedding guest etiquette questions right now. Here’s the truth: A heartfelt card, handwritten note, or small personal gesture is always better than nothing.
Consider:
- A framed photo of the couple
- A homemade baked good with a sweet message
- Offering your time or help (especially if you’re close to them)
Weddings are about love, not transactions. Give what you can—and give it with heart.
When Should You Send the Gift?
Traditional etiquette gives you a one-year grace period, but modern best practices suggest sending your gift before the wedding or within 1–3 months after. Online registries make it easier than ever to ship gifts directly to the couple, which is suuuper handy for destination weddings or large celebrations.
The Best Wedding Gift Is One That Feels Right
Unfortunately, we can’t give you a simple number when it comes to how much to spend on a wedding gift. The best gift is one that feels authentic, thoughtful, and within your means. Whether that’s $50 or $500, what matters most is the love behind it. As wedding guest etiquette continues to evolve in 2025, the focus is shifting away from pressure and perfection—and toward intention, generosity, and personal connection.
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