Trying to figure out how to include your dad in your wedding but walking you down the aisle and giving a toast is just too…expected? Good news: There are plenty of fun, low-pressure, and totally meaningful ways to spotlight your dad (or father figure) on the big day. From creative roles to behind-the-scenes moments, here are unexpected and heartwarming ideas that’ll make him feel just as important as he is to you.
1. Let Him Be the First Look
Yes, first looks with dad are trending hard. This sweet, private moment gives your father a chance to see you in your wedding look before anyone else (cue tears and proud smiles). Bonus: The photos are always gold.
2. Have Him Emcee the Reception
If your dad’s the guy who’s always telling stories or making people laugh with his eye-roll-worthy dad jokes, let him lean into it! Ask him to emcee the reception—just give him a mic and a (lightly edited) run of show. He’ll feel involved and totally in his element without the pressure of a formal speech.
3. Give Him a Signature Cocktail
Create a custom drink inspired by dad! Go with his favorite spirit, a pun on his name, or just something that screams “Dad would totally love this.” Think: “Father of the Bride Old Fashioned” or “Papa’s Paloma,” then include a sign at the bar with a photo or fun fact about him.
4. Sneak Him Into Your Morning Routine
Who says dads can’t hang during the getting-ready chaos? Invite him in for a donut break, a coffee toast, or even get him one of those cute matching robes (we’ve seen it, we loved it). These casual cameos can become some of the most meaningful memories.
5. Put Him in the Processional Playlist
Let him pick a song for the wedding processional or recessional—or walk in to a track that makes everyone smile. (Think James Brown, Queen, or a dad-joke-level pun like “Here Comes the Sun.”)
6. Make Him Your Hype Man
If you’re planning a fun wedding reception entrance, enlist dad as your personal hype man! He could be waving a sparkler, holding a custom sign, or doing a TikTok dance with the bridal party, aka dad energy done right!
7. Honor a Father Who’s No Longer Here
If your dad has passed away, there are still so many beautiful ways you can feel his presence on your wedding day. Some couples reserve a seat with his photo or a favorite item—like his tie or hat. Others sew a piece of his shirt into their gown or tuck a note from him into the bouquet. You can also include his favorite song on your playlist or light a candle in his honor. These gestures speak volumes without needing words. (Sending you so much love).
8. Add Hidden Details Just for Him
Want to keep things low-key but still meaningful? Try one of these sweet and subtle gestures:
- Sew his initials or handwriting into your dress lining
- Add a photo charm of you and him to your bouquet
- Include one of his classic one-liners on your cocktail napkins
Make Dad Feel Seen, Your Way
Whether he’s smiling through the tears at your first look, mixing a signature drink, or honored in spirit, discovering how to include your dad in your wedding is all about celebrating your unique connection. It doesn’t have to be traditional to be meaningful—it just has to be you and him.
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