Former Bachelor Colton Underwood on Becoming a Dad | Weddings-ish

In this deeply personal and joy-filled episode, host Jove Meyer sits down with former Bachelor star, author, and advocate Colton Underwood for a raw and inspiring conversation about coming out, finding love, planning his dream wedding, and his journey toward fatherhood. From re-proposing to his now-husband Jordan, to creating a wedding aisle lined with historic queer love stories, Colton’s path to the altar is full of heart, growth, and authenticity.

Episode Highlights:
🍷 Why Colton and Jordan chose Napa Valley for their nature-filled, wine-inspired wedding
🌾 How their emotional wedding aisle honored queer love history—and brought guests to tears
💍 A double proposal, custom cufflinks, and redefining engagement traditions
👬 Walking down the aisle together and rethinking heteronormative wedding norms
🎮 His surprising passion for video games (and he’s good!)
🙏 Reconciling faith and sexuality—and why coming out made him a better Christian
👶 The couple’s surrogacy journey, sperm rehab (!!), and plans to start a family
📺 Behind-the-scenes secrets from The Bachelor—including what’s real, what’s not, and what he’d do differently
🎧 His new podcast Daddyhood, focused on fertility, fatherhood, and breaking stigmas

Whether you’re navigating your own identity, planning a nontraditional wedding, or dreaming of starting a family, this episode is packed with real talk, love, and vulnerability.

This episode is brought to you by Kwiat: Diamonds that look bigger, brighter, and more beautiful at http://www.kwiat.com.

Special thanks to Ashley Smith Events—Colton & Jordan’s wedding planner. Follow her at @ashleysmithevents.

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Former Bachelor Colton Underwood on Becoming a Dad | Weddings-ish